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Question by me: Need answers ! Urgent family situation?
I’m a son of a very old father who is self employed recently. I’m scared that for the last two years, he has not made a single wise decision. His decisions have led us into financial bankruptcy.
- sometimes I hear him saying even before “I’m too old for this”
- sometimes he is too emotional. when my sister goes out of home for more than 2 hours he starts shouting as if someone is going to rape her.
- sometimes he is either too optimistic or too pessimistic specially at work.
- sometimes he says that money comes from God ,not from job or work.
I knew recently also that he is mentally challenged where he cannot focus and doesn’t have patience to even think. he is too short-term person.
he is the controlling type of house keeper and wants to force his role as the housekeeper even if what he is doing is wrong.
sometimes he gets angry to the point where he may throw his slippers at us for stupid issues.
my mom told me that he is too emotional and cares too much about what people say or would say even for tiniest details. his mind is always wandering and we do not seem to be able to communicate with him.
he is too hard on him self because he borrowed money from relatives which contradicts with his over “pride”.
he is neither focused nor objective. he is always taking decision with reliance on Godly miracles and emotions.
anyway, we have 2 months before total bankruptcy. even though i can still get a job since i recently graduated as a bachelor in finance, i cannot see my family suffer while i live as if nothing has happened.
my field of expertise is specialized in finance, money and how to save and increase money. I have found a way out of this situation which am legally able to do , but my father is not letting anyone do anything, and i discovered also that he doubts that i’ll hate him after graduation.he is really in unstable state in addition to his back and stomach pains. he is really in a bad situation.
in order for me to rescue the rest of the family from his unjustifiable madness, i’ll have to sell the apartment and his company which is in total loss and lacks capital anyway and take a much more cheaper apartment in another state which is not suffering high prices due to shortage of accomodation. the other state is only 2 hours far away from the one we are in. according to my plan, this will reduce our liabilities by nearly 75% and will ensure that my sisters will continue their education and we will be more able to affod life in that state while i have the opportunity for employment a lot ,and I can easily commute from one place into another.
am trying to take a really tough initiative. i spoke to my father and he is helpless completely. I found customers and clients willing to buy. he doesn’t want to take action, and he is unable to take action because of his unstable mental state (he is too old by the way). if i take this action, he and my sisters will hate me,but I’d have saved them from financial liabilities and high risk situations. I’m the only one here who is able to see how is the situation and make a decision in regard to my own family.
I would like to get your opinions. I really thought through it and there seems no better option than the one i proposed.
the situations is complicated,yet everyone seems to be outside the coverage area.i’m the only one who is able to think objectively and make a decision wise.
Best answer:
Answer by Precious Gem
Find out about the laws in your state regarding having a parent declared incompetent. Your mother also owns the company and the apartment. She needs
to protect herself from your dad financially. Once your father is declared incompetent
then your mother can give consent to sell. Good luck and consult a lawyer.
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